FIVE reasons why you should marry a Zulu woman

Many reasons have been written before on why you should marry a Zulu woman. Here are five more reasons :

She is Not Selfish – The backbone of a lasting marriage is self-giving, selflessness. This is a higher level of commitment. I am not saying you should lose yourself and become a ‘slave’. Zulu women are raised to not be selfish, but to reciprocate love and give excessively to her family and children. I strongly feel it was Zulu women who first demonstrated “Ubuntu”. That said, there is a difference between having healthy boundaries and being selfish.Selfishness causes a breakdown in intimacy and vulnerability and leads to always being suspicious of your partner. Healthy boundaries create an environment that fosters open, honest and respectful communication.

So if you meet a Zulu woman who is not selfish, marry her.

She is Not Jealous – A lot of women are jealous by nature, and that doesn’t change when they get married. So I recommend the Zulu woman who is taught to manage her jealousy for the sake of community living; for the sake of creating a happy home. I’m not talking about a woman who is prepared to ‘put up’ with anything. Yes, some may argue that a healthy level of jealousy is actually good for a relationship. A little is OK but too much of it brings insecurity, and is an expression of low self-esteem. A Zulu woman does not behave in an unseemly manner. She has learnt how to balance her own expectations with that of others, and maintain her dignity.

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